I APOLOGIZE!!

I don't know the reason Y? but

 I just wanna APOLOGIZE.

I say so many things to u at times,

Which,later makes me realize that i should APOLOGIZE,

& then also I repeat the same mistakes 'n' be UNKIND;

I really wanna say it,But i never APOLOGIZE:(

I don't know Y? But i feel that i should APOLOGIZE.

I have gathered all my courage 'n' 

have framed my FEELINGS in lines that RHYMES-

Only to hear 4m u an answer for:

SHOULD I APOLOGIZE??

           - ~@~ PRERANA ~@~

Alvida Kolkata

Its so true that MEMORIES behave in a crazy way as they leave u alone in a crowd n stand by u like a crowd whn u r alone....!!!! I always believed in moving on n accepting whatevr comes to me as GOD's gift but this time when i finally bid GOODBYE to kolkata i didnt knew wat was happening to me....i mean it seemed to me as if i was yearning for smthng,i wanted to say smthng,i wanted to hear smthng bt i was unable to undrstand what exactly was that "SMTHNG" until the train started,tears rolled down my cheeks n made me realize that it was the parting which was hurting me sooooooooooooo hardly.Though it wasn't the first time that i was parting from my friends,my relatives yet it was vry hurting coz it was the parting from my loved ones,a parting from my childhood,a parting from the sweet n sour memories of the moments spent in my house..........it actually was a parting from MYSELF:( :(.It was for the first time that i wished it was jst a BAD DREAM which will go away as i wake up knwing the fact of it being a reality.It was for the first time i wished i had an option of rejecting-rejecting what was being given to me,rejecting the flow of time n make it stop,rejecting everythng which was snatching my life from me.At that moment i wished i could be like a demanding small child who demands for the MOON being unaware of the fact that its impossible bt since m nt a kid n knw the fact that no matter whatevr happens "The show must go on".......n so here i m jst writing down wat i scribbled in my diary on 18th feb'09 (the day i bid goodbye to kolkata)

"अलविदा कोलकाता" 
न जाने कितने सवाल है मन में
 जिनके न कोई जवाब है मन में।
 चारो तरफ़ है खुशिया लेकिन
 मुस्कुराने का एक अरमान है मन में।
 मैंने पाया है सब कुछ वहां(jaipur) पे
 फ़िर भी एक तलाश है मन में।
 वो जिसे मैं छोड़ आई हूँ
 उसे पाने का आज भी अरमान है मन में। होठों पे है हँसी पर 
आंसुओं का एक सेलाब है मन में। 
कहीं अपने भी लगे अजनबी मुझे और
 कहीं गैरों के लिए भी प्यार है मन में।
 क्या ये आज सच में कड़वा है या 
बीते हुए कल की ज्यादा मिठास है मन में।
 वो घर,वो शहर,वो लोग अब नहीं मेरे पर उनके लिए एक मीठा सा एहसास है मन में। वो दोस्त हैं मीलों दूर मगर
 उनसे जुड़े दिल के अटूट तार है मन में।
 वो पल जो उनके साथ थे बीते 
उन्हें फ़िर से जीने की एक आस है मन में।
 न जाने कितने सवाल है मन में जिनके
 न अब तक जवाब है मन में........।।

~@प्रेरणा@~

Men Vs Women

Strength of a Man The strength of a man isn't seen in the width of his shoulders. It is seen in the width of his arms that encircle you. The strength of a man isn't in the deep tone of his voice. It is in the gentle words he whispers. The strength of a man isn't how many buddies he has. It is how good a buddy he is with his kids. The strength of a man isn't in how respected he is at work. It is in how respected he is at home. The strength of a man isn't in how hard he hits.. It is in how tender he touches. The strength of a man isn't how many women he's Loved by. It is in can he be true to one woman. The strength of a man isn't in the weight he can lift. It is in the burdens he can understand and overcome.

Beauty of a Woman The beauty of a woman Is not in the clothes she wears, The figure she carries, Or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman Must be seen from her eyes, Because that is the doorway to her heart, The place where love resides. The beauty of a woman Is not in a facial mole, But true beauty in a woman Is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, The passion that she shows, The beauty of a woman With passing years-only grows.

Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman, but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man Luv Happens Only Once.... Rest Is Just Life...

This is LIFE....!!!

When there is no friend, When life is on the dead end, When world is not a paradise, When your confidence dies, Tell yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE! When things don't go right, When there is no ray of light, And its too hard to survive, Tell yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE! When there is competition to face, When you are lagging behind in the race, When you've lost faith in God, When you're betrayed by a fraud, Tell yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE! When others don't respect you, When you're not amongst the admirable few, When for a question, you can't find a solution, When all you're sure about, is confusion, Tell yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE! When your destination is miles apart, When you don't know where to start, When all you see around is pain, When your hardwork is in vain, Tell yourself - Go on, THIS IS LIFE! Even though all this happens just have faith in self & face the life with smile, things will surely change one day because as said "THIS IS LIFE ... »

I gonna miss my college days...!!!

"SPUNK"
It all started with a SMILE, Acquaintance turned to FRIENDSHIP, merely in no time. 
Since then
this relation has gone so high
Just like the 'SKYLARK',
soaring in the sky.
Though there wasn't any violin 
And none played the rhyme.. 
But definitely its pure LOVE
That keep us bind...!!! 
We laughed, we enjoyed 
Even crossed the bitching line :P 
But with the passage of each phase 
Our friendship became-
as valuable as the "OLD WINE." 
I will cherish always- 
the moments that together we spent,
Apart 4m them there are few things Which i will never forget: 
Shefi with her crazy ideas 
And eyes so BRIGHT. 
Her motivating talks and 
Few of her accidental DRIVE! 
Urvi with her cuteness 
And the warmth of her SMILE. 
Her innocent black mailings &
Getting tensed in a while! 
Nish with her CHARM 
and mind so clever. 
Her assigning names to FRIENDS 
&
Jelling quickly even with a stranger! 
Kam with her creativity, 
Unique style n cool-cool atti.. 
Her BUBBLY enthusiastic nature &
Her way of making others HAPPY;-) 
Its true that ICG is a CAGE 
As people say that it Suck. 
But I believe what brought me to it- 
Was nothing but purely my GOOD LUCK..!! 
Not because its something good &
Put on Someone's head a price 
But because it embedded 
precious GEMS to my LIFE 
In the form of "MY FRIENDS"
who are so 'nice'...!!!

~@~Prerana~@~

"Hope this FRIENDSHIP of ours will never face any twilight"

क्यों चले गए आप हमे छोड़कर||

|| ऐसे थे मेरे दादाजी ||

सीधी साधी बातें थी ,बातों में था इक भोलापन 
उनके मुख से कभी किसीने नही सुना कोई कटुवचन| 
दुबले पतले से थे वो और चेहरे पे था एक कडकपन सत्ततर की उम्र थी लेकिन मन में बसा था बचपन||

 ऐसे गुस्सा होते थे वो जैसे हो कोई ज्वाला सा भड़का, 
दूजे ही पल ऐसे हंस देते जैसे कोई शीत लहर का झोंका| 
धुप में भी बाहर चल पड़ते 
जो कभी उनको मिल जाता मोका
 सिर्फ़ खुदकी फ़िक्र न थी उनको ,
थी पुरे समाज की चिंता||

 छुप-छुपकर वो मिठाइयां लाते 
हमारे बहाने ख़ुद भी कुल्फी खाते ,
 पढ़ते-पढ़ते ही वो सो जाते, 
दादी माँ को खूब सताते||

 सुनाते थे किस्से अपने बचपन के,
 शरारतों की अपनी कहानियाँ भी| 
अनजानों से भी ऐसे मिलते - जैसे हो वो अपना कोई||

 ज़माने के साथ चलते थे वो, 
हर चीज़ सिखने की थी चाह भी |
 नए यंत्रों को अपनाया था उन्होंने- 
कहते थे सीखूंगा कंप्यूटर भी||

 ख़बरों का था शौख उन्हें, 
किताबों की भी रूचि थी| 
जब खेला करते थे ludo तब- 
करते थे cheating भी|
 सिर्फ़ दादा जी नही थे वो मेरे 
थे इस घर की रौनक वही||

 रिश्ते तो और भी है मिले मुझको
 पर- वो दुलार कहाँ से पाऊँगी |
 कौन होगा उदास मेरे रूठ जाने पर 
और किससे मैं अपनी बात मनवाऊँगी ||

 सीखी है आपसे दृद निश्चयता मैंने,
 सरलता और हार कभी ना मानना |
 आशीर्वाद आपका संग रहे हमारे 
अबतो बस है यही कामना||

 हँसी,मजाक या अनजाने में 
कभी यदि दिल था दुखाया मैंने आपका - 
तो हाथ जोड़ मन वचन काया से 
करती हूँ मैं छमा याचना || 
~@प्रेरणा@~

Recession ????

What is recession?

This Story is about a man who once upon a time was selling Hotdogs by the roadside. He was illiterate, so he never read newspapers. He was hard of hearing, so he never listened to the radio. His eyes were weak, so he never watched television. But enthusiastically, he sold lots of hotdogs. He was smart enough to offer some attractive schemes to increase his sales. His sales and profit went up. He ordered more a more raw material and buns and use to sale more. He recruited few more supporting staff to serve more customers. He started offering home deliveries. Eventually he got himself a bigger and better stove. As his business was growing, the son, who had recently graduated from College, joined his father. Then something strange happened. The son asked, "Dad, aren't you aware of the great recession that is coming our way?" The father replied, "No, but tell me about it." The son said, "The international situation is terrible. The domestic situation is even worse. We should be prepared for the coming bad times." The man thought that since his son had been to college, read the papers, listened to the radio and watched TV. He ought to know and his advice should not be taken lightly. So the next day onwards, the father cut down the his raw material order and buns, took down the colourful signboard, removed all the special schemes he was offering to the customers and was no longer as enthusiastic. He reduced his staff strength by giving layoffs. Very soon, fewer and fewer people bothered to stop at his hotdog stand. And his sales started coming down rapidly, same is the profit. The father said to his son, "Son, you were right". "We are in the middle of a recession and crisis. I am glad you warned me ahead of time." Moral of The Story: It's all in your MIND! And we actually FUEL this recession much more than we think we do!!!!!!!!!! !! What can we take away from this story?? 1. How many times we confuse intelligence with good judgment? 2. Choose your advisors carefully but use your own judgment 3. A person or an organization will survive forever, if they have the 5 Cs * Character * Commitment * Conviction * Courtesy * Courage The tragedy today is that there are many walking encyclopaedias that are living failures. The More practical and appropriate views on this economic recession is: "This is the time to reunite together for any small or a big organization, this is the time to motivate and retain people which are the biggest asset, this is the time to show more commitments to the customers, this is the time show values of our company to the world, and this is the time to stand by our Nation".

True Love

Everybody in this beautiful world is looking for something i.e. LOVE and that something they say is now a days found no where but my dear friends I think you are wrong B'coz Love is the reason for this world being beautiful,its that thing which makes a difference between the one who is alive n the one who is not dead.It knows no boundaries,no religion n nothing bad.But most of us actually don't know what Love actually is?? or rather we have confused ourselves by taking it as just an antonym for HATE.....But actually to me LOVE is a feeling that brings about a magical change in our lives as it binds PARENTS to their CHILD,a BROTHER to his SISTER,it changes STRANGERS into FRIENDS n so on...LOVE is the only thing in this world which grows n becomes more stronger with time.It knows no depreciation or discounts, Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive, not 2 c but 2 understand, not 2 hear but 2 listen, not 2 let go but 2 HOLD ON !!!!

BUT

Don't ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.. And if you want to identify TRUE LOVE then: Find a guy, who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her."

Hello to all :)

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on. Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thankyou for being a part of my life. . . . . . . . .. . . .. . whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

Awesome lines

Love is always patient and kind- It is never jealous; Love is never boastful nor conceited It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense & is not resentful Love takes no pleasure in other people sins; But delights in the truth It is always ready to excuse,to trust,to hold and to ENDURE whatever comes...!!!

Don't waste what u can ENJOY!!!

Decide to be happy today, to live with what is yours - your family, your business, your job.

I f you can't have what you like, maybe you can like what you have.

J ust for today, be kind, cheerful, agreeable,

responsive, caring, and understanding. be your best, dress your best, talk softly, look for the bright side of things.

P raise people for

what they do and don't criticize them for what they cannot do.

I f someone does something stupid, forgive and forget.

A fter all, it's just for one day.

W ho knows, it might turn out to be a good day!